Blog Post – Grief Movement Guide

2.8 – Let’s get clear on why it’s ok to do business with you

• What are your potential clients’ possible objections or hesitations and what can you say to overcome them?

I am afraid of what might come up in sessions – You never relive anything, together we review things – from a lens of gaining understanding as who you are today – to look at the situation and to see what you, as that younger version, believed and took on. 

Your mind will take you back to those scenes that are relevant to your presenting issue, it may not even be the one you logically think it may be. Your subconscious mind will guide you to where it needs to go, so let go of the worry/pressure about this.

Money – It’s too expensive – If investing a grand or two in yourself gets rid of your issue that keeps you stuck, opens doors to live, love and work, leads to a 10K promotion or better jobs, gets you the relationship you want or desire, or makes you be present with your children, have stronger relationships with family, gets rid of your addiction – saves your life, health and money – isn’t it worth it?

I can’t be hypnotised – or it is hard for me to give up control – I have techniques to handle this effectively – For my RTT programme, you are given a pre-session relaxation RTT audio that helps you relax in time for your session

Also it is not about the depth of the hypnosis – it is about what comes up for you in the sessions and making the connections

Instead of being in years and years of therapy – RTT will get you the answers you seek within a few months – It’s not just talking about your feelings – it’s about knowing what to do with them so you feel better and in control

I can’t remember anything from my childhood, etc – We have techniques that will allow you to relax and ways that we can guide your mind to where it needs to go

Will I remember anything after – Yes, you will

I’m scared of feeling out of control /being controlled – I am your facilitator in RTT, I cannot make you say, do or believe anything you don’t want to. Your mind will know what’s right for you, and in fact, you will correct me if something doesn’t align with you

06A SUCCESS

• Transformation in their life
• RTT, tools and a deeper understanding of their own minds – to be able to reframe things when usually they don’t know how
• Can work with me from anywhere in the world – online results are just as effective as in person 
• Gain control of their life
• Gain control of themselves, their emotions
• Feel more like themselves
• Feel connected to others more – better relationships with themselves and others
• A place where they are understood – no judgment – only understanding and empowerment
• A person (me) who has their back and is a non-biased, safe, guide who understands where they come from, what they are going through, the nuances of their culture / faith / spirituality
• Live life fully, authentically to thrive, not just get by
• A deeper understanding of their own life journey so they own it with pride and power, rather than shame, hurt or pain 
• Gain their power back to speak up, to be themselves
• To let go of feeling like the victim
• Able to deal with life with a view that life is happening FOR them not TO them

06B FAILURE

You risk remaining stuck in your grief.

You may continue to feel alone and overwhelmed.

You could miss out on opportunities for growth/ the healing you deserve.

• hey will continue to spiral, go out of control, mental health deteriorate, physical health problems show up or get exaggerated 
• Presenting problem will continue and get worse
• Go into depression
• Lose relationships/ divorce/ disconnected from children
• Lose out on growth and promotion in their work
• Lose out on opportunities that would help them progress 
• Loss of job/ roles/ staying stuck in same one – no progress in income or even loss of income/clients if it is affecting their work – keeping them sick at home
• Sense of hopelessness
• Constant feeling of not being good enough – at home, work, relationships – keeping themselves small and hidden, not showing up, or dimming their light
• If working constantly – leads to burn out – deterioration in health – loss of income
• If drinking – addiction – physical effects of these on health, sleep

I understand:

• How lonely, isolating this journey is, especially after loss 
• How difficult it is for you to get back to your daily life without feeling the weight of your emotions 
• How difficult it is to concentrate or focus in your tasks at work and at home
• How frustrating it is to not be able to be present with your family/children
• How guilty you may be feeling about the things you should have said or done differently
• How angry you may feel about losing your loved/relationship
• How stuck you may be feeling about what’s going on with your emotions
• How challenging it is for you to navigate celebrations/anniversaries
• How scary it feels without your loved one
• How painful it is to think about your loss/loved one’s death/passing
• How you feel unable to move forward
• How demotivated you feel
• How keeping busy to avoid the emotions feels the only way to cope